Cheap Clothing

I think of myself an expert on how to dress my family for cheap. I rarely spend more than 300$ a year for clothes for my family consisting of two small boys, a husband and myself. BUT you cannot be choosey!

My tips usually are for casual items for your family. Do not be a slave to style. Do not think more of your clothes than something that covers your body and keeps you warm.

Some major DO’s and DONT’s

-Do shop online. It is faster

-DO shop only in CLEARANCE, just because an item is maked down on sale from one high price to another lower price, well you are still getting ripped off!

-Do buy only versatile items. A summer shirt with a summer print does not always work in the winter time and sweaters do not work in the summer.

-DO buy things in the summer that you can layer in the winter.

-DO NOT ever pay more than 5$ shipping for any order.

-DO NOT get sucked in to the “up to” on a sale. example “up to 80%” This does not mean you are getting 80% off any item.

-DO NOT take your kids clothes shopping. They will find things they like and a lot of times they get what they want. Do not get them in the habbit of having a choice in the store of what to wear. They have their choice in their own closet.

-DO NOT always assume name brand is better quality. Sometimes you have to take into consideration that you will be buying the same thing next year because of a hole in the knee, a stain you cannot remove, a tear in the cloth and so on.. It is better if you replace certain things every year at a cheap price rather than double price for a name.

-DO NOT buy expensive clothes for kids. They grow! CONSTANTLY! they will be a drain on the household budget if you think that a specific store or name brand is the only way to go.

-DO NOT pay more than 5$ for any shirt or t-shirt. 7$ for a nicer styled shirt, 10$ for jeans, 15$ for a sweater, 15$ for a dress, and 10$ for dress pants. This is the TOP amount that I pay but i almost ALWAYS NEVER buy anything for 7$ for bottoms, and 4$ for tops.

-DO check out your local salvation armies and garage sales.

-DO trade clothes with friends.

-DO check out more “ghetto” type of stores like Burlington Coat factory, TJ MAX, and others that might be specific to your area.

-NEVER buy for style because what is is style and expensive this year, well it will not be in style next year!!

IF YOU FOLLOW THIS INFORMATION WE CAN SAVE MONEY AND SEND A MESSAGE TO STORES THAT WE REQUIRE MORE AT LOWER PRICES! STORE MARKUPS ARE REDICULOUS!

I worked as a manager in a clothing store that was labeled and upscale and expensive upperclass type of store. The product was very worshipped buy those who bought it but there were places that sold the exact item for a lot less. And then to see how low the company sells the stuff in the end makes me feel that when you buy anything at regualr price or on sale, well the company laughs at you murmering “sucker”.

Here is my trusted buying proceedures.

WAL MART IS A FRIEND!

Well.. at least ONLINE.

walmart.com

Go to your department of your choice. KIDS, WOMENS, MENS, so on.. Go to clearance and then sort from the lowst to the highest. Buy only a few things at a time that are of interest, have it sent FREE site to store shipping and be happy. You can find more of your sizes on clearance online than at the store. This way you do not have to dig for hours at the store and get nasty stuff people have returned or tried on.This is where I get shirts for under 4$, PJ’s, for under 6$ and men’s polos for under 5$. Every now and then they will throw in something stylish for under 7$…..Do this once a month all through the year, spending no more than 20$ at wal mart at a time.. This will only work if you do the site to store and find yourself at wal mart a lot for something else. that you can just pick it up.

Then hit oldnavy.com. they have the three stores online shipping together an entire order for 5$ This is a must do!This is where I get my jeans for under 15$ most of the time. Some times I find them cheaper. Watch for the prettier tops for women. IN the fall you can buy summer stuff on clearance and just add a long sleeve layer under it to last through the winter! Shop at old navy only two to three times a year tops and buy enough to make the 5$ shipping a good value. if you only buy 10$ worth of stuff at a time then if you do that 3 times a year you just tacked on 15$ to your 30$ clothing order so buy when there is a lot of stuff on clearance.  BUT STAY IN A BUDGET!

DO NOT buy during big shopping seasons. Prices for clothing usually only get to clearance stage when there is not a lot of foot traffic in the store. They take advantage of the roaming shopper and impulsive buyer!!

Buy winter basics. Long underwear is your friend for the layered look. they have more feminine looking stuff in the wal mart lingerie section.Sometimes they are just 3$ a shirt.

As for Dresses and so on.. Well I go for price rather than style. DO not buy something that is seasonal, get something that you can wear in both seasons like black, navy, something solid color and something that is cool enough for summer but you can throw on a shawl or sweater on for the winter.

Just make sure to not get sucked into online deals of free shipping. Those have minimum purchases!! and a lot of times they are a lot.. they make you and entice you to spend more than your willing and could afford.

Just be aware. Just be alert, do not give into temptation.. and if you are spending more than 500$ for a family of 4 for a year, well you are spending too much!!!

To My Ovid, This is My problem with you.

I was born in Ohio, Soon after was moved to Michigan. Spent most of my life Living in Eaton Rapids, then a little after I married my husband we moved to Ovid. He was raised in the Elsie area but after his parents divorced, he moved into the downtown area of Ovid in his mid- teen years and had been there still when I met him. After we met, he left Ovid for me, but we felt as if we never REALLY left. We would come back to see friends, family, go to a party every now and then, religiously attended the fireman’s ball and felt like home. We agreed and decided to move back to Ovid (actually living in Ovid Township) in January of 2006. We wanted to live in Ovid because of the friends, the family and the fire department. Those three things make it home for us. Now that we lived here for a short while we have seen the area, lived the Ovid life, and have came to many conclusions about the area.

I do not mean to be mean about what I might write. I just make observations backed up by the photography. I know I will get many arguments about this and everyone is free to post their feelings and arguments about this. but I will make a list of things you will say to me first so that I answer your questions before you read on. If you ask any of these questions or make any of these statements then I will not post your comment because you did not read my answers that I have pre-written.

 I AM WRITING THIS NOW SO THAT I AM SURE THERE IS A GREATER CHANCE YOU WILL NOT READ IT IF I HAD PLACED IT AT THE END OF THIS ARTICLE.

 

Q: Why are you complaining about Ovid?

A: I am making true statements about the cities faults. Everything I say about the town has pictures, and written facts to back it up. I also think of it like a restaurant in a way. If you go somewhere to eat, have lousy food, and lousy service, would it ever change if you and every other customer were too nice to complain. The town is chalk full of nice people who are not willing to say “I am not happy” and then say “this is how I will be happy”

 

Q: If you do not like it, then why don’t you do something about it yourself?

A: I would love to! but my hands are tied. I am rather new to town, I do not have the big family name or ties that would get me an elected position. Plus I do not live in village limits.  I do not have time. I have 2 boys, own a business, my husband has his activities on the Fire department which I either attend or stay home with the kids for, and so many other responsibilities that my life revolve around. Yes I might be free for a council meeting or two only if I shell out money for a sitter (which is not in our tight budget) or maybe council meetings could revolve around my husband’s overtime schedule (not possible in ANY REALITY) .. 

Right now the only thing I can do about it is make my opinion known. Many people have opinions and it is the job of elected people to hear opinions and suggestions and based on common ground, they are supposed to act in EVERY WAY POSSIBLE to get the job done.

As for my other plan of action, The city has tied my hands. I wanted to be one who leads by example in a big way (which I will get to in a bit) I do not know who to talk to, and when I get to talk to anyone there is a LOT of red tape, money to be spent (which I do not have) and so on. So if you are reading this and have any information to help me out with my plan then I would love to hear from you directly krista.kusnier@gmail.com

Q: Why are you attacking the local businesses when you are a local business yourself? Are you afraid of the backlash?

A: For one, if you feel like your being attacked then you are making it too personal. You cannot stand on a stage in front of people and not expect to get bashed because you are the center of attention. If you are on Main Street in OVID you will be noticed. If you do not want to be noticed then do not be on Main Street, or change what you are doing. As for my business , I am not afraid I will lose business. I do not have business to lose because the city does not supply assistance. and in this economy, unless you are rich already, you have no funds to do what the city wants you to do.  (more on that later)

Also, my opinion does not affect what I do. Just because I have an opinion that might produce some friction does not mean that my prices are poor or my photography is bad. If you want to have a small town mind and not go to me because of what I say, then that is your choice, but then you are going to be another part in the problem machine that spins in in the Village of Ovid.

 

Q:What do you want out of this?

A: PROGRESSION, PRIDE, RESPECT, A FUTURE OVID THAT OUR CHILDREN WOULD BE PROUD TO SAY THAT THEIR PARENTS BUILT.

  One thing I have learned from a wise pastor. “if we do not show our children that we respect something, how are they going to come to respect it themselves”

 

 

 

Now, To my Ovid. What have we done to you?

 

I wax poetic about the first time i came to the town. It is a lovelier vision in my mind’s eye then what it actually was. In 1998 when I started dating my husband I remember the summer we would sit on his mother’s front porch. She kept her house real nice. Void of eyesores. she had a garden she tended to with great toil, not much, but tidy. Her lawn stayed mowed and looked nice. I, myself was used to my house in Eaton rapids. A 2 acre lot with forest behind us and a main road in front, making it loud and uninviting on the front to just sit out there. We had few neighbors, no one walking or driving by. When I came to Ovid and we spent time on the porch it was very foreign to me but I enjoyed it. People out here wave, yes , WAVE! this made me excited. Perplexed at how my boyfriend knew so many people to have them waving as they passed or say a big “good morning”. He said ” I do not know half of those people that just waved”. This made me smile even more. A town where people are that nice??! How wonderful! As the time passed that month, i would visit Ovid from Eaton Rapids 2 times a week after work and college classes. We sat on the same porch or walked through the town holding hands. It was September then. I remember talking to friends of his walking by, stopping in to say hello to people, and oh my! the WAVES from people were endless. From the firefighters, the police officers, and even the average Joe walking or driving by. I felt like this was the town I would love to live in. The time of the year made it even more of a romance. The leaves had just changed on the trees, it was still warm but we had crisp nights. You felt safe in the town walking after dark. But once again I must interrupt this vision through my mind’s eye. I was in love, and young, wearing rose colored glasses I guess. When you see something through those conditions you do not see the other things that are going on. When you are younger you do not take notice to some things because it does not concern you, but when you get involved in things head first then faults are prominent. I guess in reality I would like to have the whole village to walk downtown right now and be able to have the same feeling I had then, but there are some things that are hindering that to happen. Now unless everyone is young, and drunk on romance then they will see what I had seen with the Trees changing colors, the stately appearance of buildings like the 5/3 bank, and small town charm, but now we are all adults, and we have to mold it to be what it can be for everyone, every time, just as beautiful as what I had seen it. 

 

I must take you back further. To when the city was found and built.

Ovid historical sign

 

Small beginnings, big ideas, fast growth. Such a short story ending in the 80’s and going downhill ever so fast.

I had seen the mural in Boyer park, where I take many senior and couple’s pictures at. Boyer park is where I center my entire outlook on the old, current, and new Ovid. 

Look, long and hard at the mural and then imagine walking through that town that is on that picture. Then next time you are downtown, stand on the sidewalks of Main street. Do you feel the same walking down the street now as you would if you had walked down the street then?

 Boyer Park Mural in Ovid

I would love to walk through the old town with the many businesses. You do not have to leave the area, every need is met, It looks clean, But this mural of a clean Ovid is painted on a wall in an area where one of those buildings stood many years back and now the park is only a former building (that was taken by fire as many of the other buildings in the town). It used to be a part of grandeur of the town. now it displays a reminder of what it used to be. It is also a display of what it is now. The Mural is patched up, to only fail and crumble again. It will soon fall apart as it has done in the past, and it will always be a hole in between two building of what used to be Ovid.

Our view of the mural is even distracted by the simple little things that should not be. A wire for a speaker or a light that is not of function to anyone and could be eliminated for the sake of beauty. 

This space, which could be a beautiful park or building is now turning out to be unkempt and only tidied up by appearance only.

This is a common view in the park. on all the walls.  

Boyer Park Crumbling

If you would take a moment and see a great collection of what Ovid was, then you have to visit the gallery at ovidmichigan.com

Mr. Willett did a great job with Ovid History, Historical Pictures and so on. (on a side note. You must read his blogs. These are very good. Some made me chuckle with his day to day observations)

Please keep up the goodness of your site Mr. Willett.

But now back to the city. That HAD uniform, complimentary buildings. Now has a mixture of old, new, mismatched, cobbled, poorly taken care of buildings that seem to display the whole mood of the town on it’s facade.

Walk along the sidewalk and look at the storefronts. I will start with the worst of the worst. If you know the controversy that is related to this vacant building then you will be just as enraged as I am to even see this building remaining in this state for so long. A person like me, or most other businesses could move in here and just clean it up on the inside making it functional and beautiful. If you want to know what is going on currently with this building. All you have to do is look in the window (even from your car on the street) and then get up close to see what is really going on. 

Arnold D. Dunchock

Here is the letter on the door. (i took a picture of the top of it and the bottom of it so you could read it more clearly)

Warning notice

Bottom of the letter Picture

bottom of the letter

And who is to blame? If it is the person who has their name still on the front window then all you have to do is some googling.

names on the window

 

Name: Dunchock Arnold D Attorney
Street: 223 North Shiawassee Street
Corunna, mi 48817-1437
Phone: (989) 743-5621

Steven J. Reina

 

 

 There is another vacant building across the street that could be put to use before it falls apart 

Vacant Ovid

 

I pointed out the buildings and will work my way from left to right. 

The left arrow has a vacant lot. I would love to build on this lot. I found an economical building iIwould love to have in there but the city has a “plan” and there are certain building restrictions. If you buy the lot you have a year or so to build on it or it goes back to the city. I do not have money within the next year to build and then i cannot guarantee that my contractor would be able to build. Then when you build you have to have it match flush with the other storefronts. I guess i understand why, but that does not work for what kind of building I want and then it must have the brick facade.. WHY? why does it have to be a brick facade. Its too expensive for people wanting businesses to build in the perpetual vacant lot. Are they going to make the people like arrow 3 change their wood facade to a brick? and if you are going for a  uniform look, wouldn’t you have the same kind of brick for every facade so it does not look cobbled or maybe make them paint it all the same color?  Looks like there had been too many different rules and ideas. Why cant a business come in with a plan, get a general vote from the board that it looks “not tacky” and then build it?

 If I ever was able to buy that lot I would add something unique, beautiful and complimentary to it. I would build it back on the lot and have a garden in the front. This would make the lot more inviting and unique. I would then be able to use the front of that lot for my business on a smaller budget but adding great beauty to the city. 

Or if they would like a historical look I would not mind building a stick or steel building that has a facade of an old general store. This could be a nice thing to have come carriage days. We need to get over the fact that this city will never look the same. there is no money to do so, and now we must progress forward.

But I must interrupt myself again..  I will have to go back t the fact that i do not have the money. I own a photography business and do not want to create debt, do not want to pass high cost to customers with a big startup cost of a loan. I fund my business 100% from my personal fund. I am in a position now that I will either have to hope my business grows on its own through word of mouth, or I could spend lots of money on advertising every month to get very little return that does not cover expenses, or I could rent a building on Main Street, have a studio, a place to advertise, a place to start. Renting a place would be cheaper than buying right now. It will at least be a place i could advertise and have a studio. But where can I rent (for an AFFORDABLE PRICE)? There are three vacant buildings two of which are in the pictures above and another is in a prime location across from the fire station for whom I do most of my work on charity. Ovidfire.com

But none of these owners will sell, rent, or even fix up their buildings. What is this city to do.

Now I have heard FROM RUMOR ONLY

that the city has no money for this, they do not apply for enough grants to help fix this up, and that there are more politics than action.  How do we resolve this?

Who do we contact?

I would even just like to know how I can even start my business so that I could invest back into the beautifying of the town.

Just take a look at some more photos I have to share with you and please help me, help Ovid.

 

ovid, miovid mi 

 48866

 

48866 ovidovid

Low calorie food

Ok, i am back on the diet train again. I have done all the starting measurements for body fat, hip/waist ratio, BMI, RMR, BMR, and so on. I am in the "slightly overweight range, but not totally unhealthy". This makes me somewhat happy at 28 years of age and having had two large pregnancies (me being large, not the kids) . But I gained a lot of weight from anti depressants which make you not care that much about stuff like how you look or care what a certain snacking habit will do to your body. So i kicked the anti depressants, decided to actually take care of my issues in therapy. I had quit smoking last ctober so i had gained about 15 lbs after that, but well worth the weight gain. I am in the process of lessening alcohol consumption now. I was drinking one to a few drinks a night after the kids went to be to help me de-stress and sleep (this is what took place of cigarettes, antidepressants, and sleeping pills) I am now on a strong incentive to quit drinking because i found out that my shot of vodka in fruit juice was over 90 calories and the juice i was using was 80. It adds up fast!

So now i am almost clean, maybe a little dehydrated, but i am on a good first couple weeks of my diet. For my diet process i found my balance at last

Anyways, now i am mad. I am trying to find food to eat that will make me feel human. I think that the key is finding food you can pick off the shelf at the grocery store that is decent in price, actual low calorie and low fat, and good sized portions.

Weight watchers meals are not good! Yes they are real food, some of them taste ok, but as for portions… i can find one food that equals 5 times the size of that and has less calories. Please think of changing the way you make these. They do not need cheese they do not need tons of noodle, this is where the calories add up. And this is not just weight watcher. Also watch out for the sodium content on these, it is up there. 

Soups are not good. Yes they are 100 calories or less (PER SERVING) but the sodium kills you in the end and so does the fat. You cannot find one that has low levels of all three.

Meat is not good. Almost pure fat and calories. Even in one cup of cooked chicken breast has over 200 calories and 5+ grams of fat.

 100 calorie snack packs… Come on! nice to have the calories and portions all counted out for you but give me a break you spent how much money for the bag of essentially equils one real cookie and you paid 5x the amount of money for it. 

Anyways, what i really am saying is that for diets there is not much out there that s fair. High prices for whole, natural and diet foods make for everyone to spend a fortune to be light and healthy. More science is going into making kid's cereal different colors, shapes, tastes and textures than into food that could be bigger in quantity, low calorie, and low fat.

What are we doing wrong? What am I doing wrong?

Incest safaris in Meridian Township?

incesty safari

Wow! the nerve ! Incesting allowed and they did not invite everyone?

I guess people in meridian township are real heavy into incest. Not really.

I joke.

This was what was on the screen for the 10:00 nightly news from FOX 47,

our local fox news channel coming from Lansing Michigan.. I guess someone is red-faced about this one ..

If they noticed. But it is fox, I guess this is the cleanest programming they have for this hour.  

I would like to say that i might be back

So much time has passed since I have posted. I am embarrassed, but there were so many things that have kept my time busy. Now I have at least one kidless day a week to work on whatever I want and this is a continuation in my DIY projects around the home. Things i will be updating are..

-my veggie garden and other garden maintnance and planting.

-cleaning, sorting a basement which has not been cleaned in years.

-arranging my garage sale.

-finishing off a basement for family and entertainment use.

-my efforts in lawn maintnance.

-design and building wood structures for our yard.

-other clean out projects like closets, garage, vehicles, and so on..

and more!

And then there is the main focus of my life right now…. Starting to build my photography Business.  Kusnier Jones Photography.   kjpics.com

I wanted to expand not only the buisness part but the fact that this city needs to be more documented on photo.

 So with that. i will be starting laundry to get ready to clean the basement. 

The adventures of Cuddle Puppy

The day before the trip

 

This morning it has been a busy one packing and preparing.

If You do not know the whole story yet, then I will fill you in.

My husband Jason and I are going on our first semi-vacation together. The reason this is big is that we do not get out to travel alone togethr. So when the chance came for him to go to the eclipse con in Santa Clara, California, we sprung for me to go to. Even tho this is work for Jason we will still ahve travel time together and also dinners and evenings (if he does not end up working). We will be leaving with his coworker/long time friend and his wife too. While the guys attend the Eclipse con, us girls will be traveling around the area to different places, sightseeing, and appreciating the area. 

I felt terrible to go away from my boys. This will be the longest and furthest I have been from them ever.  I decided to at least let our oldest, Trace, feel that we are thinking of them and that we love them (Dannon being too young to understand). So I thought it would be fun for both us and Trace to have cuddle puppy go with us on our trip to explore with us and meet new people and then to Blog about it every day so that trace can read the adventures of cuddle puppy every night to know mommy and daddy are thinking of him. 

this is Trace

Trace 

So back to today.

This morning was a little off with trace being sad that we are leaving. But he perked up a little when i told him he could give cuddle puppy a bath to get him ready. Cuddle puppy is now clean but WET!

Dannon with the wet puppy 

dannonpuppy

 Trace telling me to put him in the dryer

trace with wet puppy

 

And now for the first adventure. 

Wishing you were here… err.. i mean… wishing I was NOT here!!

 HOT HOT HOT!

puppy in dryer 

Decisions, Decisions, Decisions

Decisions, Decisions, Decisions
 
 
 

 With the pressure of time and a punctual office manager I sit here trying to decide on what the message will be for this month’s Messenger.  Should it be one that is theologically driven or maybe it should reflect some good old southern wisdom.  Should it be an original experience or better yet a reprint of a poem or story from another author (copyright laws apply).  I had to make a decision soon. I was totally undecided as to what to do. Little did I know God was already allowing me to experience what I should be writing about.  The horrible feeling of being “undecided.”
 
 Arthur Bryant, the English historian wrote, “There is nothing more destructive of action than a tortured undecided mind.”
 
 Today’s culture has drawn away from the ability to make hard and fast decisions.  This ailment has turned homes into arenas of frustration. Indecision in the workplace has encouraged the acceptance of mediocrity.  Waitresses accumulate hours standing by table sides waiting for customers to make some kind of a decision from the smallest of menus. And of course there was a sign that was displayed in a local library which read, “National Procrastination Day Has Been Postponed.”  Just an amusing way of saying “Make a Decision!”
 
 Meet me at Matthew 16:15 ( I’ll wait).  Here we see Jesus asking His disciples to make a decision.  “Who do you say I am?”  The Christian faith demands an answer to this question.  Unfortunately most people are not aware that this question is directed at them and so they shy away, not because of some intellectual doubts or even a grave moral problem.  They are just not ready to make a decision.  We must remember during this Lenten season that the Christian faith is not merely a knowing of Christian history, but it’s all about making a “DECISION.”  What will yours be?
 
                                                            John
 
 

Life of the Radish

I am a little behind on this. Bear with me!

radish1 

The seeds were planted on The 7th of December, 20 days ago from this post.

they germinated within the week of planting.

The Radishes are under a daylight florescent bulb on a shop light spot light.

I used general miracle grow plant mix.

This is growing in a galvanized steel planter approx 14"x4" (i think) and it has about 3 or more inches of soil.  

I have a 19-30 days listed as harvest time but being day 20 I doubt it will meet that. I think it might be the cold Temps in the basement sometimes dropping into the low 50's.

 

This post will be updated.  

 

First picture 

radish1 

 

Todays picture. (of same radish)

radish#2 

 

 

Yet another harvest

These things are coming faster than I can cook with them.

onions 

They make good seasoning for soups and anything I throw into the oven. Good for garnish and wonderful for salads. Right now there is the bundle pictured that will be for dinner tonight an my salad for lunch and now I have not had to buy onions in weeks and probably will not have to buy them for the rest of the winter.

Then I will keep them going for greens until I get my first batch of scallions in the spring (When i get to buying bulbs for planting outdoors)  

This was a total savings!

And yes those are twist ties from the toys. I hate those things when I have to take them off the toys but they sure come in handy when you save them. 

My eyes have been opened!

After getting onto the gardening forums all over the net someone has pointed out something interesting that has given me a whole new outlook on winter gardening.

Instead of indoor winter gardening someone said to winter sow my seeds OUTDOORS?!!

I was intrigued..

Check out Wintersown.org 

 

This is a great instructional read and i have to give lots of credit for doing this on a short budget and recycling!  This might be added to my activities list for january after the holiday mess is over.

But thank you for the helpful information!

The tip came from one of the helpful members on "idigmygarden.com"