UPDATE!
Well  i got a letter stating that the policy for the forum was that i had to have 10 posts before i get the availability to post my link. Now i have a question. If the moderator had taken the time to remove my links on my topics, and then had the time to write the mail shouldn't he had taken the time to look at the link i put on there to verify that i was legit and not a sales site?
i give kudos for the response but i am still not getting how these moderators try to make it friendly but end up just being a little too consumed in the rules. I know the rules are there for a reason but they just shooed away a reader and participator. Sorry… and remember i have too much to do to stop and have to read every rule.

See the start to this topic here 

and yet I just withdrew myself from another site for the same thing too..   helpfulgardener.com .. looks like get crafty is better in this field than these gardening forums  

Come on people! you make enough from advertising to do this stuff.